Planning the wedding is something that is important. But completely unimportant. But extremely important.
It has to be done. And it makes the girl (and you!) happy for it to be done right, for any given definition of 'right'. And, in all likelyhood, it will seem like running off to Vegas would be a really good call at least once during the process.
In the end, the details fade and the important thing is the decision you have already made. The wedding is an experience, an event. But the reality began when she said yes and will continue regardless of the color scheme or how many great-aunts you managed to offend with the seating arrangements. I guess I say all that to mean something simple: don't let it get to you. Your relationship is worthwhile; the party is just a party.
Hope I see you guys in a few months. I'm happy for you both. :)
We're trying to keep it all in perspective. The only thing I really need is to see her walk down the aisle with her father and let me slide that ring onto her finger, y'know?
Comments 14
Whens the wedding going to be?
Reply
Reply
Great news! Congrats!
Reply
Reply
Reply
Reply
It has to be done. And it makes the girl (and you!) happy for it to be done right, for any given definition of 'right'. And, in all likelyhood, it will seem like running off to Vegas would be a really good call at least once during the process.
In the end, the details fade and the important thing is the decision you have already made. The wedding is an experience, an event. But the reality began when she said yes and will continue regardless of the color scheme or how many great-aunts you managed to offend with the seating arrangements. I guess I say all that to mean something simple: don't let it get to you. Your relationship is worthwhile; the party is just a party.
Hope I see you guys in a few months. I'm happy for you both. :)
Reply
We're trying to keep it all in perspective. The only thing I really need is to see her walk down the aisle with her father and let me slide that ring onto her finger, y'know?
Reply
Leave a comment