Yeah. There's definitely a sense of security you get from your parents staying together. My fiancee's parents are still together and I can sortof see sometimes that I worry about things in our relationship that never occur to her. I think most children of divorce also try to bargain and blame themselves, and I can see that in myself a lot. My mom once told me I kept her and my dad together much longer than they would have stayed together otherwise and I think things like well, if I was the glue, why did I stop working? You're divorced anyway, it doesn't matter how long I kept you together, because it didn't work.
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