just a few q's

[thecalm]

Obviously, these are personal questions/thoughts that have been bothering me for a while now. I love my boyfriend, yes, but we have issues. And the way I/we deal with our issues seems to be ineffective. I can't seem to think straight, or look at our problems in a different light or from another perspective. I have just been so out of touch

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[_0821]

1. Should you always ask your partner's permission when you go out/meet friends/etc

[thecalm]

it did. thanks, cris. i'm just pretty much confused right now. i do love him, and i'm willing to wait. he's been very considerate man sad. but i just feel... scared, you know. i sometimes feel like i'm not good enough and that's why he's not coming out yet or something. *sigh*

but really, thanks. :) it's always good to know how other people feel. :) MuaH!

[i_am_only_human]

i will play along as daz isn't home yet and waiting for him to get here.

1. Should you always ask your partner's permission when you go out/meet friends//etc?

I don't think it's asking permission. It's more of letting him know your whereabouts so he won't be worried sick if you got ran over by a tractor or anything stupid. Not that you'd do anything stupid like that.

2. Does your partner know your passwords (ie Multiply, Friendster, LJ etc) and if not, would you give it if he/she asked? Do you check each other's phones?

Darren knows my passwords but he can't remember it anyway so what's the point. If you have nothing to hide you shouldn't worry if he knows but I would question his motives or intentions for wanting to know my passwords and what he intends to do with it.

3. Do you see each other everyday? If physically impossible, do you see each other as often as you can?I go home to him every single day so I guess this is a no-brainer for me but when he used to live in Wales we don't see each other everyday. It would depend on

[thecalm]

He insists man on me asking him, Douine. And he never lets me go anywhere alone. Grabe first time jud nga i'm super under the saya with this guy. :( He knows my passwords man, and I have nothing to hide from him na, but whenever my "past" comes up, we always end up fighting.

And I totes agree on feeling like a dirty secret. I feel like i'm not good enough. :c

I miss you, too Douine! :c

[riotous_prole]

- Ask for permission? No. Maybe tell them, yeah.
- No.
- No. He lives in another city, and we're both busy during the week.
- My boyfriend is a little bothered by me not being totally open [kiss/hug/hold hands] in public..
- He's patient and I am working on it. I have approved greatly..

[thecalm]

I see. But you are going to do it, right? Like, come out?

And your icon is awesome. :)

[tatsu_kun]

Ok this is easy and 101 of good boyfriending

[likebadmath]

add me back?