Comments | thecowsspot: The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

thecowsspot

The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Mar 16, 2006 14:47

Here's the deal, I'm always interested in what people think about me. SO this is kinda like that thing Brittany set up.

Leave an anonymous comment
Say one thing about me that really pisses you off
Say one thing about me that you think is an absolutely wonderful characteristic
The goal is to allow for me to change by abandoning the bad ( Read more... )

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The Jane anonymous March 16 2006, 22:04:11 UTC

Allright...The thing that REALLY pisses me off about you is the fact that you are always putting yourself down and the fact that you seem to have no self worth at all! It makes me so sad to see you be so down all the time.

Ok...One wonderful characteristic...Damn...There are so many...Let me think...Ahh. GOT IT! Well, its not really a characteristic...But its when you are happy, the way you smile. I don't see it enough. But...If you wanted me to say a characteristic...(Which you did...I just now thought of one to say...) I would say that its your kindness. Despite the fact that you are always down, you are very nice to people, even when they do not deserve it. So, that is that.

anonymous March 17 2006, 00:03:08 UTC

i think it's silly that you emphasize that comments need to be anonymous. would these comments be more meaningful or less meaningful if you knew who made them? in a way, i think it might be better if you knew who was saying what because you'd have a better understanding of the point of view that those commenting are coming from. but then, i suppose if comments are anonymous, it's so much easier to dismiss the negative comments.
it takes a lot to piss me off, but, the above being said, one thing that bothers me about you is your constant need for approval from others. you'd be a much happier person if you just approved of yourself and didn't worry about what regard others held you in.
as for positive things. you have a certain humor about you, and aura almost, when you're in a good mood and happy that is pretty cool to be around. if you could replicate that mood, more often, well, who knows what would happen.

thecowsspot March 17 2006, 01:57:26 UTC

The anonymousness is as you thought it might be - to dismiss the negative comments and just see them as a chance to improve myself rather than go insane over why people think that.

aves_corax March 17 2006, 04:24:13 UTC

A double-edged sword, but perhaps the wiser nonetheless. Though I do wonder if you're logging IP addresses for comments. *shrugs*

I've thought on this a bit and will do so further, and I'll let you know what I come up with. And yes, I'll be anonymous when I do so.

anonymous March 17 2006, 04:37:06 UTC

if IPs were being logged, it would say "Notice! This user has turned on the option that logs your IP address when posting." underneath the box where you type your comment.

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anonymous March 17 2006, 00:55:12 UTC

I don't know you well enough to honestly find a fault. I will say that I don't get to see you much, that you're usually up in your room. But you are a sweet and caring soul - don't let anyone take that away from you.

thecowsspot March 17 2006, 05:02:52 UTC

Yeah, I know I'm kinda untouchable. The reason I've been trapped in here lately is 'cause of the whole surgery thing - though that should change soon, along with the weather.

anonymous March 17 2006, 02:19:50 UTC

This first part is not original at all: I think you seek approval too often and too much. (This isn't such a big thing, but when you sing, it seems like your trying too hard to sound good. You have a pretty voice, but when you sing to certain songs, the pretty voice isn't needed.)

Something positive: You're very pretty, very fun, very bouncy. You have a cute giggle when you're tickled. Well, you have a cute giggle even when you're not being tickled.

thecowsspot March 17 2006, 02:33:00 UTC

OoOoO SOMETHING NEW TO WORK ON! Thanks :)

Oh, Jane... _y0ur_m0m__ March 17 2006, 14:47:59 UTC

Little Jane ( ... )

Re: Oh, Jane... thecowsspot March 17 2006, 15:44:33 UTC

AUNTIE SUZY! You're seriously amazing! I adore you and thank you SO much! Last year for lent I gave up saying that I was unattractive and rather than disagreeing when someone said I was pretty I just said thank you (this is half because Jonathan, boyfriend of the time, wouldn't shut up about my inability to say I was pretty). This year I've given up coffee, but I'm readopting last year’s permanently. Thank you for all the encouragement.

Also, with all these comments about needing to show more confidence in my beauty... I'm thinking about standing on a roof to one of the buildings here, getting a loud speaker, and yelling at everyone that I think I'm attractive.

More importantly I’d like everyone to know that the idea of a “figure” and attractive facial features is new (VERY new) to me, and I hate the idea of being like some of the “preppy” girls I went through high school with pretty-but-they- acknowledge-it-too-much-to-the-point-they-lose-all-attractiveness

Again I love you and thanks 11tybillion
Silly

Re: Oh, Jane... _y0ur_m0m__ March 17 2006, 17:00:30 UTC

You're welcome! I meant every word, Sweetie, and don't worry as I am sure that if you ever get to thinkin' too highly of yourself, there will always be someone to burst your bubble! Yeah.

Love,
Your Auntie