Ohkay, how about I make this a lot easier to understand: you respect me, you respect my decisions. I'm not five, I can decide who I want to date, where (or where not I want to go, thanks to all the people who are trying to force me to go out and get drunk at bars), and I can decide where I want to live. My life does not revolve around my
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Hehe, I got it. Thanks! :)
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"JAMIE CALL ME BACK! *hangup*"
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"Hello, this is AT&T calling with a phone call from 'COMEPICKMEUPATIHOP'"
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Heather, the thing that upsets me the most is hearing things from other people that I haven't even talked to. Frankly, I don't care if you like each other or not, but it's extended beyond that. I wanted to keep that shit between you guys, but that's obviously not what happened. You told me that you wanted to protect me one time recently. I don't know if it's because you were drunk, or because you thought you were doing the right thing. I appreciate that profusely. But how is telling other people behind my back about my personal life and my friends protecting me? Are you trying to get people to get on your side about things, or is it just too hard to keep things you and me talk about personal?? It seems it's always been that way, eh? Just remember, I do love you, but if I want people to know about my life, then I will tell them. Otherwise, let's just keep it between us. Because, obviously, it isn't helping.
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That really sucks.
I have to make one thing clear - you are really smart, and kind, and wonderful. It looks like I have a different view of your relationship, probably because I knew Bobby and am friends with him etc... Anyway, just remember, anyone who chooses to criticize you, does so not because they love you, but because they have a need to criticize. Love and respect often means taking a step back and supporting a friend despite their choices.
It is a question of advice or control.
Anyway, good luck, I'm sending you Loving thoughts and smiles, and I hope you get this worked out.
Also, I work everyday except Sunday and Monday, at 10:30pm, so if you want to do an afternoon hanging out, lemme know. It sounds like you need some love.
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Thank you very much. You've probably given me the most sound advice yet. I'm always free after three and I'll be in town this Sunday thru Wednesday (I'm usually not), so gimme a call sometime! :) I still have your old phone number, so as much as I'll call it, I'm sure you won't answer. ;)
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