i don't know your dad, i don't know your relationship with your dad, and i don't know the circumstances that surround those two areas so i don't know how he will react to that.
the wording sounds perfect and i think it is good that you were very frank and you just came out (heh. no pun intended) and said it quite forwardly. you did not beat around the bush or sugar coat it.
you presented everything as how it is.
you presented some solid stuff (like your relationship of two years, which shows that you've commited yourself and that a gay relationship is just as real as a hetero relationship).
you gave him permission to talk to others about it and to take his time. you also told him that if he isn't happy with it then you don't expect his financial support (hopefully it doesn't go to that point). basically in that you were saying you don't have any expectations either way.
jordie, let me know how things go. you know i love you!
aww best of luck.. astoria summed up your letter well... even if he freaks out at first .. he'll come around in the end.
p.s. i just got tmnt yesterday for my wii too :D im stuck on the donatello one... where you use your stake and jump.. then you jump onto the wall in the side with your stick to start.. and then u got this fat pipe.. i cant make it past that haha
aww... i've been so behind in lj! just read this...
i hope it all went well. i know it can be a little daunting doing this - jason just came out to his dad via email similarly, and it freaked him out a bit but it all ended up kinda ok.
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i don't know your dad, i don't know your relationship with your dad, and i don't know the circumstances that surround those two areas so i don't know how he will react to that.
the wording sounds perfect and i think it is good that you were very frank and you just came out (heh. no pun intended) and said it quite forwardly. you did not beat around the bush or sugar coat it.
you presented everything as how it is.
you presented some solid stuff (like your relationship of two years, which shows that you've commited yourself and that a gay relationship is just as real as a hetero relationship).
you gave him permission to talk to others about it and to take his time. you also told him that if he isn't happy with it then you don't expect his financial support (hopefully it doesn't go to that point). basically in that you were saying you don't have any expectations either way.
jordie, let me know how things go. you know i love you!
the best of luck.
♥
*kissies and huggles*
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p.s. i just got tmnt yesterday for my wii too :D im stuck on the donatello one... where you use your stake and jump.. then you jump onto the wall in the side with your stick to start.. and then u got this fat pipe.. i cant make it past that haha
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i hope it all went well. i know it can be a little daunting doing this - jason just came out to his dad via email similarly, and it freaked him out a bit but it all ended up kinda ok.
... hope you have a good easter, either way :)
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