Upon Reflection

[theinfamouskym]

I don't want a c-section (which I think I've been pretty clear on).  Monday I fully intend to make myself clear to my OBGYN.  If and unless there is some certain emergency that would warrant a section (and a long labor, or not progressing doesn't say "emergency" to me) - I'm going to refuse one.

I've spent nearly all of my life wanting to be a

Comments

[jaysons_lady]

Don't let them make you lay flat. You will labor faster in an upright and non-supine position.

I was lucky with the circumcision thing. My husband was supportive, having a cousin who is uncut, and seeing no need for it, since neither of us is Jewish.

Make it clear beforehand to the doctors and nurses that you are going to breastfeed. I know the ones down here are totally supportive of it. But don't say you want to "try" to breastfeed, say you are "going" to breastfeed. And don't get discouraged if you don't get it right away. It takes a little bit of work to find the right way to get the baby latched on sometimes, but it is totally worth it.

and once again, good luck with labor and everything.

[theinfamouskym]

Thank you so much for your advice, I really appreciate it!

Hope you don't mind me snooping...

[ldy_shadow]

Aww, honey. I wish like hell that I could teleport there for you - I'd be your doula in a heartbeat and help you get what you *want*.

A thought for you - write it down. More for yourself than for them, but if you get flustered, point to bullets. Bonus points for bold lettering and large font. Sometimes being able to look at that piece of paper and remember that you were determined enough to write it down will spark the fire, y'know?

Here's hoping that the appointment tomorrow goes well for you. *hugs*

Re: Hope you don't mind me snooping...

[theinfamouskym]

No, I don't mind snooping at all! Thanks for your concern, and advice. And best of luck to you and your little one, as well. Sending good vibes your way...