i know i'm going to get tons of shit for this post but I have become increasingly angry with people telling me "sorry". Let me tell you when i want to hear I'm sorry
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nauw...sorry...i also say that all the time...cause sometimes you really dont wanna do something on purpose or something you really wanna change your behaviour but then...you just slip into it...and most of the times you are also mad with yourself then...cause actually you really tried not to behave stupid...mostly...right at the moment...you behave wrong...nobody knows whats going on...but you cannot give an explanation...cause...you dont even know why you treated people like that...and then you say sorry, for doing something you just did, not even being aware of it...cause you are really sorry...every fucking time it happens again...even if you cant change it...
nauw...sorry...i also say that all the time...cause sometimes you really dont wanna do something on purpose or something you really wanna change your behaviour but then...you just slip into it...and most of the times you are also mad with yourself then...cause actually you really tried not to behave stupid...mostly...right at the moment...you behave wrong...nobody knows whats going on...but you cannot give an explanation...cause...you dont even know why you treated people like that...and then you say sorry, for doing something you just did, not even being aware of it...cause you are really sorry...every fucking time it happens again...even if you cant change it...maXIE.
aww... but maxie- I came off a bit harsh there- the post wasn't intended for things like that. If you have a certain way of dealing with stress and that works for you, you don't need to be sorry for it. Everyone has a different way of doing that. You don't need to explain yourself either- because you're right- sometimes there isn't an explanation. there doesn't have to be. sometimes we just don't know what to do. and it makes me cry so much every time i know you're in pain and there's nothing i can do about it. :-( even worse if i think i might have caused it. .. You can keep it a secret if you want, but then forgive me for not wanting to watch.
I don't understand the context but totally agree with it! :) good luck, any news about your study next year? or just enjoying the nice weather? it's gonna be crazy friday! full sun :)
hehe.. i can't believe you actually read that post.. it's so long! :-) but maybe you could answer a different question... when does the school year start at the HvA? And maybe if there are like, a couple weeks of orientation or something that could help determine when i could get the visa. or maybe i just need to talk to someone there again about these questions...
This post WAS intented for all dutch "service"workers particularly banks and immigration and as of yesterday, train conductors. If i knew the answers to all the questions i had, i wouldn't be bothering you at your offices in the first place. If i had all the answers you wouldn't have a job anymore! If getting any USEFUL information out of you requires me to "ask the right question", then i may as well be talking to a swami because banks are the LAST places i would look for advice on how to think outside the box. If you don't have the answers, then direct me to someone who will!
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sometimes we just don't know what to do. and it makes me cry so much every time i know you're in pain and there's nothing i can do about it. :-( even worse if i think i might have caused it. ..
You can keep it a secret if you want, but then forgive me for not wanting to watch.
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but maybe you could answer a different question... when does the school year start at the HvA? And maybe if there are like, a couple weeks of orientation or something that could help determine when i could get the visa. or maybe i just need to talk to someone there again about these questions...
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If i knew the answers to all the questions i had, i wouldn't be bothering you at your offices in the first place. If i had all the answers you wouldn't have a job anymore! If getting any USEFUL information out of you requires me to "ask the right question", then i may as well be talking to a swami because banks are the LAST places i would look for advice on how to think outside the box.
If you don't have the answers, then direct me to someone who will!
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