another LJ cut in the wind.....

[thekidsmum]

If you don't see yourself on my mutual friend's list, you have been knocked off my LJ.
I am eliminating those of you who are reading but basically NEVER giving your point of view or advice.
If you want back on, please let me know.
If you want out, please let me know.

Comments

[thekidsmum]

I am sorry but you are not on my mutual friend's list.

[ex_angeldove677]

I always cut friends specially when they don't even give a hoot commenting on my journal. I mean, what's the point? I always comment and I just cannot deal w/ lurkers for 3-6 months without saying anything!! I always say something to them, why can't it be mutual? I mean this is the blog and everyone needs feedback, right? Oh well...maybe it's just me.

[thekidsmum]

That is how I am beginning to feel about it. I know that some of my friend's are not online right now and that is alright with me. But for those that have been on my list for quite some time and never comment, I just don't see the point of me commenting from time to time on theirs and they never giving me any feedback. Kind of a one way street, eh?

[indifferent13]

I know I don't comment a lot...lately I just don't have a whole lot to say...but i do read and I love your picture posts!

[thekidsmum]

Don't worry about it ....

[indifferent13]

well i don't want to be unfriended...so i'm worried ;)

[thekidsmum]

You never have to worry about that! You are here to stay if you like it or not!

[carrie1983]

I think I'm going to start doing that. It's not like I have a huge friends list but....it is kind of like, what's the point? if they're not participating in the journal.

It kind of frustrates me when people expect you to always be the one to comment things to them, or start conversations with them but don't do anything themselves.

[thekidsmum]

True enough. I try my best to stay abreast of what is going on with friends. I don't always comment, but I try the best I can. :)

[carrie1983]

Same here....

I want to make new friends and I don't see how you can do that without interacting with them

[amacmillian]

No cutting Miss Tina!

[thekidsmum]

I wouldn't dream of cutting you! :)