Bleh

[themagicallucy]

I feel rather naff today..
Some idiots at my school pushed me into a bus today after school. Which was only the cherry on everything. Last night I tried to stick up for my boyfriend, which just resulted in someone saying they don't even want to know me anymore. Someone actually had the nerve to tell my boyfriend that he doesn't like the way I treat

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[bytheweekend]

Sorry to hear you've had a few bad days. ;m;

Try to ignore stupid comments/remarks from people - afterall, stupid talk only equals a stupid person, right? That's my experience of it anyway!

I hope you weren't hurt when you were pushed into the bus, are you okay?

As far as cosplay goes I can't really give any advice as I'm not experienced in it, but maybe try talking to the group organiser before the slots for people are all arranged? (Like, maybe mention how you don't get the chance to cosplay the character you'd really like to; maybe tell them why you'd be good as that character? I.e, Good excuse to do a difficult costume/favourite character, etc. Something like that anyway! :3)

...I probably made no sense at all there. >w<;;

[themagicallucy]

Awhh thanks~
I'm not hurt from the bus.
The comments I've got are really hard to ignore. And this person has told other people about it too..

[bytheweekend]

That's good! At least it was nothing serious. Buses = Evil. >.>;

Try not to let the comments get to you too much though - it only says so much about the person who's choosing to spread gossip, right? They're obviously not very nice deep down to want to try and wreck what other people have - for whatever reason, they can't really justify acting that way. D<

[madamelapin]

"But now that I'm never my favourite character, I suppose it's just lost it's fun. I probably sound really selfish..." No you don't. You're lovely and I knwo you like to join groups to help out, but it does mean that you will end up losing enjoyment. Cosplay can be serious fun, or a serious heartache. I made the mistake once of cosplaying someone I wasn't overly keen on for the sake of someone else. Now, I will only cosplay charatcers that IIIIII want too. The same is for you too. The key part of cosplay is enjoyment, you're meant ot have fun and a part of doing that is to be a character to like. I have actually been asked to join... 5 groups since I started cosplaying (lol, I've completed two outfits myself xD I'm surprised) and I've only accepted one, becuase the character I ended up with is one I adore. Perhaps you could do your own group? And then you'll get the character YOU want. And I know it seems a little less... *tries to think of word* proffesional in doing this, but there's never any harm in having more than one charatcer

[themagicallucy]

Awh thanksss~
That advice is pretty good, I'm glad I don't seem arrogant xD

And I'm fine with the bus. It wasn't moving fast and I got pushed into the side of it. I don't actually know who did it, which sucks..

[themagicallucy]

Long comment is lonngg D8
I'm okay about the bus, I wasn't hurt, but it just really annoyed me. Like, a pile up of everything you know?
I agree that sometimes it's okay for someone to get involved with someone else's relationship, but Mike and I were fine. And someone who kept calling themself kept trying to get him to break up with me. Mike says that this guy is full of rubbish. I'm just more upset that someone that I thought was a good friend could backstab me like that =/
And yeah, I really get put off cosplaying for those reasons. Like in May I got to the group late and ended up doing something completely different to everyone else, which was cool. But while I was choosing the character I wanted to be (which was nia), I felt under pressure to change because other people (who were doing something else at expo) wanted to be nia. And I don't like to start drama and stuff, so I changed to Simon. I don't usually mind changing, but when I feel I have to change character every time, I get a bit fed up >