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[theobscurobject]

michael and i are probably not moving in together. we've talked about it a lot and we both think it would be better. so he will be moving back to titusville. this feels just about as awful as i thought it would. yesterday when we came to a decision i felt so relieved because the pressure was off, but now i am about a million miles away from that

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[its_a_deal]

oh no! :c

[iidiotboxx]

Oh man! Why do you think it's better to do this?

Honestly... is it because your relationship is winding down or something? Or you wouldn't do well in such close proximity constantly? If that's the smart decision, then good that you're making it, even if it sucks... but it must have been really hard to talk about. =/

[theobscurobject]

it is a combination of things. a lot of it is financial--he really can't afford to stay up here--but part of it is the relationship :/ i feel really uncertain about everything and about our relationship, and the idea of living together when i felt like that was just so much pressure. it has been hard but i think it will turn out for the best in the end.

[luckygirl143]

it's the right decision! I promise! Signing a lease together is a BIG deal!

[theobscurobject]

haha, i definitely need to be reminded of that sometimes... thanks for the encouragement :)