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[theola]

i am devastated

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[psikodelia]

Your BFF broke up with you?

Aw, man. Usually when people grow apart | in different directions, both parties can readily admit it and see that there is nothing left that binds. But when one of the two is utterly confused and blindsided, fuck.

So sorries.

[theola]

yesterday i was really sad and today i'm really angry.
who says those kinds of things to someone that you care about. it seems so unfounded and self centered. or even if she doesn't care anymore i don't deserve to be treated like that. i sent her an email yesterday and have yet to receive a phone call or an email back. nice.

[psikodelia]

It's a grieving process. She's obviously snapped in some respect. It sounds like stuff may have been building inside of her and instead of addressing it, she let it take over and has now decided you two can't be friends. She's deemed you Toxic™ or something.

You DO deserve better than that. It might take her a while to come down from it. Hopefully, she'll have the courtesy to respond to you and clear some of it up for you. But there is the chance you might not ever get closure from it/her. Whatever happens, know you were an awesome friend and you share in people's joys and failures. Keep it moving. You know, once the hurt subsides.

::hugs::

[theola]

thanks :)

she wrote back, and while i get it it's still kind of harsh.
in any case, i'm feeling better and not as upset anymore.

i'm just going to let it go and let her come around on her own time if/when she decides to.

i'll be ok :)