In leiu of health

[theomniadam]

The following is written with the intent of personal growth- growth for me the writer. It is not intended to create social obligations- obligations for you the reader. Please don't read this is you are uninterested or simply feel you have better things to do- it's mostly for me, and for others as an after thought.

Comments

[figgs4life_afi]

It's good you're getting out a lot more though, sometimes we all need it.
Holding in things will never help you, they'll only build up more anger and frustration.
You're a very strong, nice, and respectable individual, just at the fact that you refuse to ever say anything bad about anyone on here...if it's needed for venting, you should try making a couple posts completely private just so no one else can read them and you won't feel bad about the things you say since it remains for your own personal use; it really helps.

BTW I don't think I've ever heard you curse to be honest, but everyone does it from time to time, I wouldn't feel bad about it, really.

And to add on, I miss hanging out, we need to soon!!

I prayed

[nobrainer202]

I don't know why I forgot to pray for you for so long, but last night I did and I somehow randomly found myself on livejournal again, reading your latest. Coincidence? Maybe. But still interesting to consider. It comes down to simplicity, Adam. You want to get better at being alone, be alone. You want to get better at being with somebody, be with somebody. That point may be argued, but it makes sense if you think about it. If you truly want to master anything, you have to do it. Repitition and all that. Thinking and learning around things will only do so much good. I am not saying you necesarily should start a relationship again, just don't count on getting used to being alone a good preperation for love. Healing is a different issue, and no one knows you better than you (except for God). Don't let anyone rush you to move on or go back. If you think being alone will help you in some way, then take your time