The hits just keep on coming

[theotherblonde]

Well... he went thru with it, after 4 hours of crying and like 2 hours of trying to get him to understand that this whole this is stupid and fucked up and that I'm not happy with it... he did it anyways. No: "if it makes you feel better, when we get there we'll get separate rooms" or "Maybe I'll call Ashley and tell her things have changed" or "

Comments

[gooney_bird]

*hugs*

[anonymous]

it's ok to not want to talk to him right now. just make sure that you do soon. and he does desperately need to understand what he did was un acceptable and that he needs to show you the proper respect. If nothing more than you own that title of girlfriend, of love... but really because you are a human being he cares about, someone he is sharing part of his life with and deserves to have say on stuff like that. it's common sense and I'm so sorry that he's being so dumbly stupid. bah! men!
LMG

[blackholeson7]

You are not being childish, nor should this be brushed away as easily as your feelings were. You deserve as much respect as you give him.

He needs to understand that it is unfair to ask you to put that much trust in him. Even if you have it, you shouldn't have to strain it. He should have gone by himself or with someone from his family if you ask me.

It may come around to feel like a small issue, but it wouldn't have bothered you this much if he didn't mean a lot to you. If you are as important to him, then your thoughts, feelings, and opinions should matter just as much. Just ask him what he felt was more important; his comfort at the wedding, or your comfort in the relationship.