two things

[theotherqpc]

gay men talk about sex. a lot. it's a pretty damn big part of our lives, considering it's what's ostracised us from the mainstream

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[tim_e_bear]

For the first five years I was out, I don't think I discussed sex - mainly because: (a) I wasn't having sex; (b)I wasn't meeting anyone I wanted to HAVE sex with and (c) I didn't know anything about sex, and my few attempts to get involved in discussions about sex tended to result in 'get HER' comments. It's like the time (recently) I said to someone I'd never been to a bathhouse. They assumed I was being ironic. Uh, no...never saw any reason to...though, again, maybe I should someday, just to say I have...