Comments | thepopster: best freind?

thepopster

best freind?

Apr 21, 2004 23:45

some people just don’t get it. what is friendship? what are best friends? i believe it involves camaraderie, which entails trust, honesty, respect and a willingness to sacrifice oneself for the other. One must act selflessly, as the other’s feelings or well being may be on the line. Friendship means putting yourself in the other person's shoes, ( Read more... )

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anonymous April 22 2004, 00:17:00 UTC

very well put pops. i dont kno who the hell it is....but that girl needs to apologize to you....shes hurt you deep. <3 xoxo <3

Lies? anonymous April 22 2004, 08:58:30 UTC

You can't tell me that you haven't been known to lie.... a lot. Sorry your friend sucks, but don't make yourself out like an angel.

Re: Lies? thepopster April 22 2004, 10:11:18 UTC

ya...i do lie sometimes. everyone does. but i dont lie to my best friends. those are people no one should have to lie to. and i dont make up lies about stupid shit, like sayin that i went clubbing with someone, when i really haven't. i was the person she said she "went with." consequently when i was asked about it i didn't kno what to say...i felt stupid. soo you're right...IM NOT AN ANGEL...and im no where close to perfect. im sorry if it seems like i am putting myself on a pedestal, i dont mean to

Re: Lies? thepopster April 22 2004, 13:24:13 UTC

come to think of it....the only people i lie to are my parents, and once in awhile my peers. but i only lie to them to protect either myself or someone else...and they're never vicious or stupid lies. so i dno what ur talking about.

stinica April 22 2004, 10:13:05 UTC

Amen. I really hope everything works out. I have no idea who you're talking about (or if I even know her), but I can apply everything you just wrote to a few people. Remember, a mistake happens once. AND.. I've always said that I can forgive but I don't forget. I don't think anyone does. It sounds like this person is tearing you down. Don't let them. If they recognize what they did/do to you, and seem like they're really sorry, AND tell you that they're willing to change... THEN give them another chance. It sounds like you've just given too many chances. Let them know that they can't play with your feelings.

AHH I'm writing so much because I know how much it SUCKS to have someone you love stab you in the back. And lie. Lying is a bad idea. Hope everything works out.

Love ya POPS! xoxoxo Stina