(I've told you in private, but am telling you publicly how proud I am that you wrote about this.)
I think telling your parents has the benefit of your having the support of your parents. They may freak out, but you have had to deal with it so will continue to.
Tell them. Family should know. Or at least your mom cause she's someone you could talk to about it. When something like this happens last thing you need is to hold it in. You need someone to console your fears to.
I have had cells come back abnormal before too. Had a biopsy done (no fun, I cried). They put some stuff on it and it cleared up on its own. So there is hope. When I first got the call I was just told mild dysplasia - precancerous cells and nothing beyond that and was left to freak the shit out for a week till I saw the doctor for the camera and biopsy thing. Best thing you can do is trying not to worry too much till you get an official answer.
Doll, my best friend had the exact same thing happen to her. And her parents are insanely germ phobic, along with refusing to talk about anything related to her not being a virgin (she's my age). I'm pretty sure she kept it from them and they ended up finding out about the shots after she had the biopsy and freezing done.
You know what? They totally surprised her. They were supportive and cared about everything that was going on. I think that they are your parents and they will be thankful for you to let them know whats going on. You need a support system from them right now and telling them isn't cruel, they are your parents and they will want to know.
Let me know if you want to talk to/have me ask any questions to my friend as well. I know it's horribly stressful. Love you kitten. xo
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I think telling your parents has the benefit of your having the support of your parents. They may freak out, but you have had to deal with it so will continue to.
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I have had cells come back abnormal before too. Had a biopsy done (no fun, I cried). They put some stuff on it and it cleared up on its own. So there is hope. When I first got the call I was just told mild dysplasia - precancerous cells and nothing beyond that and was left to freak the shit out for a week till I saw the doctor for the camera and biopsy thing. Best thing you can do is trying not to worry too much till you get an official answer.
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You know what? They totally surprised her. They were supportive and cared about everything that was going on. I think that they are your parents and they will be thankful for you to let them know whats going on. You need a support system from them right now and telling them isn't cruel, they are your parents and they will want to know.
Let me know if you want to talk to/have me ask any questions to my friend as well. I know it's horribly stressful. Love you kitten. xo
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