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Blame NJX - I got it off his lj.
Your Existing Situation
Imaginative and sensitive; seeking an outlet for these qualities--especially in the company of someone equally sensitive. Interest and enthusiasm are readily aroused by the unusual or the adventurous.
(fair enough so far)
Your Stress Sources
Wants to overcome a feeling of emptiness and of separation from others. Believes that life still has far more to offer and that she may miss her share of experiences if she fails to make the best use of every opportunity. She therefore pursues her objectives with a fierce intensity and commits herself deeply and readily. Feels herself to be completely competent in any field in which she engages, and can sometimes be considered by others to be interfering or meddlesome.
(hmm, maybe not a fierce intensity, other than that, fair enough up until interfering and meddlesome - I'm not am I?)
Your Restrained Characteristics
Emotionally inhibited. Feels forced to compromise, making it difficult for her to form a stable emotional attachment.
Feels trapped in a distressing or uncomfortable situation and seeking some way of gaining relief. Able to achieve satisfaction through sexual activity providing no turmoil or emotional agitation is involved.
(Oh so it is all my fault after all - I'm emotionally inhibited says here - and there was I thinking for years that it was all the boys faults. Hmmm. Stable emotional attachment - sounds nice - and is nice - I have tons of them with friends...)
Your Desired Objective
Wants to make a favorable impression and be regarded as a special personality. Is therefore constantly on the watch to see whether on the watch to see whether she is succeeding in this and how others are reacting to her. this makes her feel she is in control. Uses tactics cleverly in order to obtain influence and special recognition. Susceptible to the esthetic or original.
(And that last sentance means what exactly? I understand the individual words, but together they are trying to say...what about me? Hmm. I can be a bit tactical at times true, and I do like to feel in control - takes alot to make me flounder. Rest of it's OK.)
Your Actual Problem
Afraid that she may be prevented from achieving the things she wants and therefore demands that others should recognize her right to them.
(I'm not afraid - it just never properly occurs to me that I may not achieve what I want out of life - why shouldn't I?)
Your Actual Problem #2
Strongly resists outside influence and any interference with her freedom to make her own decisions and plans. Works to establish and strengthen her own position.
(Hell yes I like to make my own choices - from big life changing descisions, right down to deciding whether to clear away the pots now or later. Being forced to choose now instead of later is the worst thing about being home.
Wait a minute - why is this my "actual problem #2"? Strong minded independence isn't problem is it?)