Ignorane is bliss part deux

[thetigergoddess]

So today in my crazy calmness I ask him if he found her yet and he said no. I said well I'll help you find her. I said what made her not talk to you anymore and he said marrying you, and I said well why did you marry me if you both wanted to be with each other and he said that he was afraid that he couldn't get back up there. So basically I am

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[personiused2b]

idk. i don't know him personally but to me it sounds like this women is just a fantasy in his head and he's scared that it won't actually turn out in real life as how he's been fantasizing it to me. i think it's common for people to fantasize about a different/life/lover and trick their brain into believing something else. i think if he truly didn't love you, you would know. you can tell someone loves you by the way they look at you, touch you ect. and i don't believe that if you never felt these things from him you would have never married him. i think he's gotten himself too wrapped up in his fantasies that he's disconnected himself from reality. i don't think you should help him find her, i think he needs to go get him and figure out what he really wants first. course this is all my opinion haha.

[celestialmarvel]

::hugs:: Damn right I love yoU!

MMM....take care of yourself...you have to worry abut you right now...very important!

I don't think that you should help him find her I don't think it is going to help anything. If he had really wanted to be with her he wouldn't have married you and if she had really wanted to be with him she woulnd't have let him get married.

[sicktodeathmx]

See myspace blog comment.

[vespered]

Oh, Ashley...

More than likely he has dreamed up some perfect, idyllic situation with this woman that will never exist, because she has "warts" just like every other woman.

Please talk to him about marriage counseling.

People DO love you.

[thetigergoddess]

and you are most loverly. I think you are truly awesome. I think I have it worked out. I just used my brain instead of my heart. :)

Ignorance is Bliss & part II

[sxysssy]

My sweet sister I'm so sorry for what you've been going through. Though I have to admit I can't believe you didn't call me & I had to hear that you'd written about problems on MySpace from Daniel so I had to find out what was going on. I've really no words of wisdom because I failed @ my marriage & have no relationship w/ anyone. Just know that you are more loved than you ever know & cared for greatly.