I have now decided that this life is pointless

[thetigergoddess]

I am really and truly losing my mind at this point in the game. I can raise no one on any of the hundred messengers I have. There is no one to calm me down or tell me I am overreacting. Why am I stuck here? Why? Cause I was stupid to believe in a man. I was stupid to believe that anyone could possibly love me. I was stupid to believe that I was

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[sxysssy]

Yes my dear there are still good men out there u will see when u meet Raymond. He, Alex, & Kayla are my whole life. I may not get married soon but I'm happy as hell where I'm at. U have to make up your mind & get out of this situation cause honey I've been down the same rd. Yes, there is such a thing as true love & soulmate.

[hinorei1978]

My sweet mama. I don't like knowing you are going through such stress, pain, and dispair.

I don't know what you've been going through lately. But, obviously, you are going through some rough times in the marital department.

Since I am not aware of the details, I cannot tell you whether I think you should stay and give it your all or whether you should seek calmer waters with a more suitable companion.

But I can tell you that you are a beautiful human being with much to offer. You deserve all the happiness in the world.

I know it is easier said than done, but don't give up hope. Hang in there, dear!

I am here if you need me! (AIM - HinoRei1978; MSN - hinorei1978@hotmail.com)

Much love your way!! * Comforting hugs *

[heiligennacht]

I think it's time to get out. I'm on AIM and googletalk (more likely to get me on google) talk to me and I'm sure Katie and I can figure out a way to help out

[vespered]

Either you leave him or you give him permission to keep hurting you. It's that simple. I don't believe in coddling someone.

You know I'll help you if you decide to get out. But that's your call, chica.

[xkxdx]

If you ever wondered where all the games came from, this is it. Something like? "he stopped giving me his attention once he realized he had mine" and " I feel powerless against him because we are married."

Marriage is not forever, it can be dissolved with signatures and very little money, if you go to the right places. Attention can be found in many many different places, and it would be especially easy for a tall beautiful woman like you.

This is not your prison unless you choose to wear the shackles. I think there might be a possibility someone may need to be reminded of this. It might be you, it might be him, it might be both of you. Just remember if he really wants to go and you won't let him, he will burn your life from the inside out and leave nothing behind. If he wants to stay, a reasonable reminder of your ability to choose to not be around a person who chooses to betray your trust might be a good wake up call. You can love people but you are never obligated to take their shit.

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