I think people who don't care about rejection either lie (intentionally or not, maybe that's their personal strategy), are in denial, have no feelings or have been rejected so much that it's just not a big deal anymore. Sorta how the first time you do something you're unsure or anxious about, and it's a big relief when you get through it. The next time there's less anxiety and tension, less the time after that and so on, until you're so used to getting over it that it really isn't a big deal anymore because the fact that you will is a given. For the people that get to that point and still maintain their decency, both to themselves and the people they spend time with, I can only say god damn, they're better people than me.
As for this guy, anyone who thinks it only takes 5 minutes to figure you out and deduce your value is an idiot. I mean c'mon, clearly it takes six minutes! =P
But buck up little camper, you'll get back on that saddle and sow your oats eventually.
I don't know. it seems like all I've faced recently is rejection. And, yes, sure, I've offered some as well. But as far as conquering a love or even a lover in the last couple of years? Well, let's say, if I posted everything, it would jut be embarrassing.
I didn't like him within the first 5 minutes. But that's because he was cocky and showed up with a shitty look on his face. Plus, he was probably shooting off bad vibes like you wouldn't believe.
I can relate to a feeling of repetitive rejection. I can also relate to a boat load of embarrassment. Seriously my life has taken some pathetic turns over the years.
I know we're very different in many ways, but your age was rough for me. I learned a lot about myself at that time and grew the most as a person I'd say. The things I did then really set me up for how I'd deal with even worse shit later on.
You can't predict your future, nor can I, but I'm choosing to believe that you will find the things you're looking for, and not simply because I like you.
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As for this guy, anyone who thinks it only takes 5 minutes to figure you out and deduce your value is an idiot. I mean c'mon, clearly it takes six minutes! =P
But buck up little camper, you'll get back on that saddle and sow your oats eventually.
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it seems like all I've faced recently is rejection.
And, yes, sure,
I've offered some as well.
But as far as conquering a love or even a lover in the last couple of years?
Well, let's say, if I posted everything, it would jut be embarrassing.
I didn't like him within the first 5 minutes. But that's because he was cocky and showed up with a shitty look on his face. Plus, he was probably shooting off bad vibes like you wouldn't believe.
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I know we're very different in many ways, but your age was rough for me. I learned a lot about myself at that time and grew the most as a person I'd say. The things I did then really set me up for how I'd deal with even worse shit later on.
You can't predict your future, nor can I, but I'm choosing to believe that you will find the things you're looking for, and not simply because I like you.
Persevere Lewnar. You can do that.
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