It's VERY hard to tell if it's bad when you're IN the relationship. Generally, they all start out good, so when they go bad, you think back a few months and go "but he's so sweet!". You should feel safe and happy and not guilty or like you're chasing someone around who isn't reciprocating. I guess my only advice is to try and step out of it (mentally), and ask yourself "If my friend was in this relationship, would I want to tell him/her to get out of it?". Also, tallying up the "red flags" that you let slide because you were crushin'. Example: I had an ex-bf who said, in so many words, "I hate my brother because he is not as smart as me". At the time, I was like "he's so sweet, he doesn't mean it." But in retrospect, total facepalm. Good luck!
what are the symptoms of this relationship that you believe that it could be going bad? analise events that you feel that are bad...or the emotional state of the both of you.
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