Promiscuitiy and the point of no return...

[thetruewiggles]

The worst part of this post is that I am going to try to retype this from memory - because I just pounded out 30 minutes of some of the best writing I feel I may have ever done, only to have my comp freeze up and kill it all

Comments

[sayaka]

I can't think of anything really intelligent to say on this matter - you're pretty much said it all, and eloquently! You're a brave person for baring this to the world, Martin. You've grown up so much and I'm happy about seeing it happen over the last frickin' DECADE almost. You were a sweet, awesome, fun boy and you're a decent, chivalrous (and awesome and fun!) man and I'm happy to see it.

And I just wanted to throw in here, for anybody that might read it:

Martin, is one of the most honest and caring guys I've ever known in my life. I don't trust people easily so take that as you will. If you want to judge Martin on his real or imagined promiscuity - and I know personally a LOT of people who have - I hope you also take a moment to think about what a great guy he is. Someone I'm honored to know him.

That is all.

--K

wtf, it took THREE TRIES to post that? thanks, livejournal -_-

[dragonappartion]

I honestly have to say, anyone who thinks *you* are promiscuous is just jealous. Personality, goes miles, and this you have in spades.

[anoceanview]

I wouldn't call you promiscuous, but I have heard you on occasion talk about your lovers in a less than chivalrous manner to third parties. If you're concerned about the death of chivalry, there are always ways to do a little bit better by the people you're involved with. I wouldn't necessarily consider posting a public assessment of your main lady as 'in-between' a chivalrous act.

I'm back in town by the way, let's have a drink :)

hmmmm...

[thetruewiggles]

Well - at first I felt as if I was almost being attacked by this reply; then I took a breath, reread it, and tried to see it from around the other side.

Yes, I have talked about prospects from less than a pedestal viewpoint to others, and I have gone far beyond that when venting - even about the person I may have called my love (at any one particular time). That said, it may have been due to some circumstances pushing me to some sort of feeling, or being in a position of ease - but none the less, it does not change the way I aspire to treat and act towards women in general. I have greatly improved how I am towards others, and the respect I hold in general for most of humanity.

Lastly, the end statement of my current lady being 'in-between' is something I have told her word for word in person - and she has said the same to me. I would always rather be soemone's favorit over being their best.