I tried...

[thevilagemidiot]

So I gave Doru a call earlier. We actually had a nice little talk. We were both very calm and he listened to what I had to say. Unfortunately, he said he has to talk with the rest of the band before he can make a decision

Comments

[llydaw]

Well, I'm praying for you. You are eighteen.

[thevilagemidiot]

What does me being 18 have to do with it?

[guitarguysrule]

so it was your dream. You made memories. You had fun. it was "where you belonged." You miss it. You want back in. Your sad they wont let you back in. They "dont understand." But the thing is tim, you quit. They didn't kick you out, but you quit. on your own. And the fact that you did that is really no one else's fault. It seems like if you wanted it that badly, you would have put up with what you had to, and gotten over it. Now its just that if you did rejoin, the cycle would repeat itself. You would come back in. Things would be fine for a little while. They would start "treating you like shit." You would get pissed and fed up, and then you would want to quit again. Its never going to change. i would understand if they kicked you out. but you quit. and what sucks for you is that you made that decision.

[lizbobiz]

It's really hard to admit this because I don't want to say anything to hurt you, but I do agree with Paige. The cycle is only going to repeat itself, and if being in the band means as much to you as you say it does, I don't think you should have quit over some stupid disagreement. There's something that just makes it hard for you and Doru to get along for more than a month. Because I am your friend, I really don't want to see you get hurt. And that's exactly what's going to happen again not too long from now if you go back.

[thevilagemidiot]

I did put up with it for quite awhile. Like I sad before, I had just snapped that day and I didn't think. I just acted which was my own mistake, like you said. However, I don't think you're right about the cycle repeating itself this time. This is the first time I ever quit and now that I realize what I've done I know I won't be able to do that to myself again. If I'm in again, I'm either in for good or they kick me out, but I know I won't quit

Its Doru

[jmsvocalist]

Face it tim, your not getting back in, never again. And sorry for using your bass and amp. it was just better and it was just there. And James wanted to make you look like shit. But it was never going to work, evan didn't like practicing with you andymore..........ever, I was always arguing with you, steve,well lets just say,he never liked you. I think its not that big of a deal, we are not going to get famouse, nothing is going to happen, its just a game, and its how you play and responded to what you got dealt, you didn't get dealt a good hand so you lost. So what, move on, get on with your life, stop weeping, do something else, I would.

Re: Its Doru

[thevilagemidiot]

Wow. That's the kind of response I get from you WAAY after this post was made, and after I even still came to the show and helped you guys break down and everything afterwards. I was only kidding about my bass and amp, but I do want them back soon