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[thewayoftheid]

So. The end to a pretty awful week. I welcome it gladly

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[argentla]

Forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation. Once somebody is out of your life, forgiveness is more about forgiving yourself, which is important. It doesn't have to involve interacting with that person ever again.

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[sofvckinghot]

Forgiveness isn't for them. Hell no, he doesn't deserve it.

Forgiveness is absolutely for YOU, casting aside the stuff that is still controlling you about the relationship.

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[bibliofile]

Yeah. Forgiving is what you to yourself and for yourself. It has very little to do with the other person.

Ah, what a crappy week indeed. Have a better one, some day...

[amai_unmei]

I'm sorry for your loss ... on both fronts. Now is the time to take care of yourself and let those around you take care of you. My best to you during this time, and into the future ...

[izzybelbooks]

*hugs*

[denim_queen]

*adding to the hugs*

[i_dreamed_i_was]

First of all, I'm so sorry for your loss. Anyone who says anything about how you felt before is an idiot-- it doesn't matter if you were childfree or if you wanted 18 kids. Your loss is your loss. *hugs*

I'm really proud of you for processing this stuff, for working on it. Because it's hard work, and it's self-care. Not to sound too hippy-dippy about it. Take care of yourself. And you let me know if there's someone in your life who's not taking care of you, because you've seen my booty-- I can sit on them. *more hugs*