three weddings?
I went to three in a row. Wtf.
I always wondered why people got married. I mean usually, if it's almost very likely they'll end up miserable and hating each other in 10 years. Not that I dont believe in the marriages of my close friends. but isnt that the normal thing?
So the first week was my cousin's cousin's where we partied down. She had gotten married. thrown away free college and basically an amazing pass at life out the window and got pregnate on accident and then married. I dont know if she's happy. I know I say I'd love to be a mother but would I give up all my hopes and dreams for my child? I dont know.
The second week, Cindy got married to a mormon boy who is very nice with a family that is very ugly on the inside. She's amaizngly happy. but her brother isnt. all together theyre 7 siblings, and so far 5 out of the 6 that got married are divorced and remarried and divorced again. Except for Cindy who barely got married. she's doing it for love i think. I'm not sure.
This third week, on valentine's day, April got married to Keith.
I cried three times.
It was a wonderful wedding however little it was. I hope nothing bad happens to them.
When people get married they're happy. They love eachother. What in their life goes wrong? I dont believe in a person is just actually bad and was always bad from the beginning. So what is it? Why do people forget why they used to love eachother? Why do they begin treating eachother badly? why do they feel the need to hurt eachother on purpose?
Or are people actually selfish?
lesigh.