Irregular update.

[thinh]

Ok a lot of things since last update. My friend gave the cat to another person since the adopter lived right acorss the street. My mom also pulled an executive veto. On second thought it would have been a mess since I have a basement full of concrete dust atm. It prolly would not have been healthy for da kitty. So if I want to get a kitty, I'l have

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[sandramort]

I hate to break the news to you...

The big thing is that she's scared that this mood will never go away and that she'll always feel miserable.

It can take *YEARS*.

[thinh]

I'm aware of that and there are plenty of bumps that we'll see due to that as we come through anniversaries, our first child's birth, other milestones, not to mention the seemingly random times that it'll hit her. I'm prepped for this, but it doesnt mean that I can't be overwhelmed by that.

Btw, can't thank you enough for the site link, that site really has helped her a lot.

[sandramort]

I'm glad.

[sandramort]

It probably goes without saying that you need to be *extra* careful re: contraception. Having been in a pregnancy after an abortion and been put through a completely unnecessary *second* unplanned pregnancy... well... I don't have enough bad things to say about men who do that.