I'm so sorry that you had to go through that, the situation with your parents. I can't imagine...
Don't give up on your relationship yet. If you work at it and she works at it will get better. You're going through a hard time, dealing with issues that aren't just going to disappear one day, and if she is committed to you she will help you through. But you really have to be committed to improving your life.
K and I are having a hard time too, as you know. Mostly it's my fault for thrusting too much change on him while he's in school. It's overwhelming to him. I am passionate and impulsive... So it goes. Anyway, loving someone means loving the positive and negative things about them.
Have you talked clearly about what you each need from the other right now?
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Don't give up on your relationship yet. If you work at it and she works at it will get better. You're going through a hard time, dealing with issues that aren't just going to disappear one day, and if she is committed to you she will help you through. But you really have to be committed to improving your life.
K and I are having a hard time too, as you know. Mostly it's my fault for thrusting too much change on him while he's in school. It's overwhelming to him. I am passionate and impulsive... So it goes. Anyway, loving someone means loving the positive and negative things about them.
Have you talked clearly about what you each need from the other right now?
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