VERY ANGRY: Do not read if you dont want your feelings hurt

[threeeleven02]

I actually regret that last entry. I did not know that some people were mad. Well i knew paige was mad. I dont want this to turn into some insane thing where everyone is mad at eachother. What is done is done...shit happens im sorry. Im upset yes but their is nothing that i can do or anyone can do to change anyones mind. I think its amazing that

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[pasfriend4]

I hope i move i really do. I need to get out of here sometimes change is good. If i dont move i think i might go back to new york something anything i cant stay here. I have never liked it..since the day i moved i have not been the same. I feel like all i have done is cause drama. Shannon u cant b serious. U saying that makes me sad already. I tink it is a great opportunity and if thats what u want to do then u should. But please dont feel that uve only caused drama. My life changed knowing u. I am happy. I found someone I could b myself around and confide some of the darkest feelings. I know u liked NY, but u cant think the friendships uve made with all of us were a waste

[sam32465]

If you're ready to move to New York on your own, how are you not ready for marriage? :) I think ppl can be ready whenever they choose, just a matter of sacrifice and making it happen. If I was in you and Blake's situation, I'd go on dating and when it got to marriage I would do whatever it took to MAKE myself ready for marriage. But oh well. I hope you don't move but I guess different people care about different things. Moving isn't going to solve ur problem. If anything it will make it worse. What happens when shit happens but none of us are there to help you? What happens when you realize that by moving you've moved away from everyone that cares about you and have to make friends all over again. U know how long it took for everybody to make friends my question to you is, do you want to go through that again?

[enderxncdr]

Sam, wouldn't that advice be going against the Elders' advice? I'm pretty sure they know better.

I plan on doing it, but read the YPA book about dating and marriage. I'm pretty darn sure it says exactly what we are trying to do.

[sam32465]

I don't know exactly what the elders told you, but I know for a fact nobody is going to argue with you about being old enough when you're TWENTY. You're not too young to date, you can arrange it so you're ready. Even if it means living in an apartment for a few years, if that's what it takes you could make it happen. I don't know what they could have told you other than that if YOU PERSONALLY are not ready then wait, but that is just you. There is many people who get married at 18 and there is nothing wrong with that. All I am saying is that you make it sound like it's a rule, and there is only one way to go about it and that isn't right. Maybe you personally aren't ready I'm just saying if you think about it, are you really not ready, or is everyone not ready for you to be ready.

[enderxncdr]

It isn't a rule, its a recommendation. I know.

However, I mentioned earlier that I know I ain't ready. Am I preparing myself? Yes. Also, there's that whole college business I wanna get done with.

[starbay_bay]

I'm not going to tell you what to do because I've never personally been in that situation but if you can find a guy that really loves you and Jehovah then that is a really I mean really good and rare thing.

Sisters sometimes even wait until theyre 40 to find that, And if you do move Shannon it's not hard to make friends and there is nothing wrong with it just keep yourself open to new people.

And it's nice to know that someone appreciates my eccentricity.:)