Men don't want Women, they want Men with vaginas
But then, women don't want men, women want cars and money.
Ok, maybe I'm just bitter. Or cynical. No, I know I'm cynical, and that's probably not the best of things, but that's the way it is.
So I've been cruising the dating sites for a while as I don't do the bar scene, and besides I know that the bar scene really won't turn up the kind of woman I'm attracted to anyway. I don't like the bubble headed party girl type. I know my proclivities and I know how to not waste someone's time. But I Have gotten more disillusioned with the whole process. I conservatively may have sent out at least one thousand introductory emails to women over the past year. I sent a pretty long letter each time, spent some time to make sure I was including things they found necessary from their profiles, tried to be a little witty, and what have I gotten for my troubles?
One response from someone so far away there is little chance of more than just a net friendship and nothing else. But besides that; No "thanks but no thanks", no "Eeeew, skeevie", nothing. Not a peep.
Now I can understand to a small degree. With the demographics of the net I understand that they probably get about a hundred messages a day, but after you delete the "you're hot! let's Fuck!" messages, how hard is it to drop a line saying you aren't interested to someone like me who's really trying to attract your attentions.
But no, I get nothing. Why? Because they don't want to have a relationship with me because I can't give them lots of stuff. All I can give them is love. They won't give me the time of day until I can prove I can give them expensive things or stuff they can show off to other women. Women don't want love. They want a bank account.
Worse, women don't want sex. Never. Any woman that says she does is lying. She just wants what sex can get them. Maybe it is a child, maybe it is keeping their gravy train interested in them, maybe it is a little 'romance' (but only when they already have the bank account, which is why she's cheating on you. You've given her stability, so now she can find her romance elsewhere.)
This is what lends credence to the old cliches. Men marry for love, women marry for money. The Fastest way to a woman's heart is through your wallet.
But then again, maybe my problem is that I won't beat them. Maybe that's how you get a woman, You have to be willing to make their life horrible. Then you can get a woman and keep her forever giving you sex and attention. Otherwise... nothing.
And the woman that tried to take 'nice guys' to task in her blog post? Bullshit! You can't possibly say that all 'nice guys' are weasel-y little wimps with no self esteem. No, most just want you to have as much fun in the relationship as they are having. They are trying to be the person that you feminists have been trying to turn men into for forty years. Why have you been making men like this? So you don't have to worry about trying to please them. You can just have a whipping boy that gives you stuff and doesn't demand that odious sex. You can have your free house, your expensive cars and when you might want some romance with a 'real man', you can always have your affair as well, because you are safe in the knowledge that that piss boy you've made the poor man that loves you into won't ever turn off the gravy train.
Ah well... Enough ranting, or whining, whichever you prefer.
Ok, maybe I'm just bitter. Or cynical. No, I know I'm cynical, and that's probably not the best of things, but that's the way it is.
So I've been cruising the dating sites for a while as I don't do the bar scene, and besides I know that the bar scene really won't turn up the kind of woman I'm attracted to anyway. I don't like the bubble headed party girl type. I know my proclivities and I know how to not waste someone's time. But I Have gotten more disillusioned with the whole process. I conservatively may have sent out at least one thousand introductory emails to women over the past year. I sent a pretty long letter each time, spent some time to make sure I was including things they found necessary from their profiles, tried to be a little witty, and what have I gotten for my troubles?
One response from someone so far away there is little chance of more than just a net friendship and nothing else. But besides that; No "thanks but no thanks", no "Eeeew, skeevie", nothing. Not a peep.
Now I can understand to a small degree. With the demographics of the net I understand that they probably get about a hundred messages a day, but after you delete the "you're hot! let's Fuck!" messages, how hard is it to drop a line saying you aren't interested to someone like me who's really trying to attract your attentions.
But no, I get nothing. Why? Because they don't want to have a relationship with me because I can't give them lots of stuff. All I can give them is love. They won't give me the time of day until I can prove I can give them expensive things or stuff they can show off to other women. Women don't want love. They want a bank account.
Worse, women don't want sex. Never. Any woman that says she does is lying. She just wants what sex can get them. Maybe it is a child, maybe it is keeping their gravy train interested in them, maybe it is a little 'romance' (but only when they already have the bank account, which is why she's cheating on you. You've given her stability, so now she can find her romance elsewhere.)
This is what lends credence to the old cliches. Men marry for love, women marry for money. The Fastest way to a woman's heart is through your wallet.
But then again, maybe my problem is that I won't beat them. Maybe that's how you get a woman, You have to be willing to make their life horrible. Then you can get a woman and keep her forever giving you sex and attention. Otherwise... nothing.
And the woman that tried to take 'nice guys' to task in her blog post? Bullshit! You can't possibly say that all 'nice guys' are weasel-y little wimps with no self esteem. No, most just want you to have as much fun in the relationship as they are having. They are trying to be the person that you feminists have been trying to turn men into for forty years. Why have you been making men like this? So you don't have to worry about trying to please them. You can just have a whipping boy that gives you stuff and doesn't demand that odious sex. You can have your free house, your expensive cars and when you might want some romance with a 'real man', you can always have your affair as well, because you are safe in the knowledge that that piss boy you've made the poor man that loves you into won't ever turn off the gravy train.
Ah well... Enough ranting, or whining, whichever you prefer.