Comments | ticklishmoon: Waiting....

ticklishmoon

Waiting....

Mar 24, 2004 21:50

I'm chillin' at the lab waiting for my babe to get off work. I've had enough of labs today having just come from work myself lol. Our friend Stacia turns 21 at midnight, so we are going to Fuel & Fuddle to celebrate with her. I am the designated driver though, so I can't really drink lol. I finally schedule tomorrow after finding out that I'm ( Read more... )

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phenotype March 25 2004, 06:56:38 UTC

Well, moving in with your significant other is a scary thing! You'll be around each other 24/7, and you'll learn new (and maybe not-so-pleasant) things about each other. And if one of you decides you need space for a while, you're kind of stuck, because you're living in the same apartment. Then there's that statistic (I don't know the exact numbers) that if a couple lives together before they're engaged or married, there's a higher chance of them breaking up.

So, yeah... There's a lot to be scared about. But I can tell you guys love each other bunches, so I wish you the best of luck.

ticklishmoon March 25 2004, 10:15:51 UTC

Moving in with someone is a scary thing, sure...but if you are secure in your relationship with one another and realize that there will be problems as there are in any kind of relationship, you'll be just fine. No relationship is perfect. It's about being able to communicate and work out the problems. That's what's important at the end of the day. There will be times when people need space, but if you think about living together as being "stuck" in the same apartment with the other person well then you shouldn't be living together in the first place. Living together should be a great a thing. And as for the statistics, well if everyone listen to statistics, then people wouldn't drive, eat or do a lot of other things that statistics tells you isn't good. I worry a lot about things in life, but living with Tom is not one of them. We communicate very well with each other, and I know we will be able to work out any problems that come our way because we have a great relationship and love each other deeply. So for those of you who ( ... )

phenotype March 25 2004, 17:52:04 UTC

First of all, you can make any statistic prove any point.. so I don't really buy statistics. Secondly, I've lived with three boyfriends and two out of the three were absolutely wonderful ( ... )