Comments | tigerlilly13: 5 years

tigerlilly13

5 years

Jul 05, 2006 21:29

well it has been 5 years as of June 6 for bar and i. It seems like we are not getting to far either *sigh* I do not know maybe it is just a rut who knows but i guess i just want more from this in this time, and i am not getting any of but for the when i get this or when i do this and this and this......*sigh* i mean i want to mover out and i want ( Read more... )

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Open yer mouth sunflowerlmj July 6 2006, 08:32:14 UTC

And tell HIM what you just told all of us...

Re: Open yer mouth tigerlilly13 July 6 2006, 18:42:29 UTC

I have but you either gets mad or changes the subject

Re: Open yer mouth sunflowerlmj July 6 2006, 18:56:32 UTC

then tell him yer gunna leave him if he dosent change

coolsashy July 7 2006, 16:40:49 UTC

Do you really want his as a husband then? He has never been too determined and committed to anything. I cannot see how he can be dependable to help support the family financially. If you moved out together, it would be really hard to pay the rent for the apartment with you going to school and him working at Toys R Us.

Anyways, Deidre, you have had these doubts for as long as I have been your friend. I know he is the father of your baby, but you have always put everything into the relationship. You got down to Davis many many times before Barrett finally did when Zach was born. You called him more often than he did. In fact I remember you getting mad at him for not calling you for days. I always thought that you deserved better than him and should have broken up before you even got pregnant.

Now, it's more difficult. Just tell him that if he doesn't want to live like a family in your own place and he be the father and husband he should be, then you and Zach are leaving him.

tigerlilly13 July 7 2006, 18:21:53 UTC

Yea, I do not know.....It is weird b/c he seems to be trying so much more then before you know he is actully getting away from his parents and everything and spending just about all of his time with Zach and I so It makes me a little more confused on things.

If he would just show more incentive I do not think it would be such a big deal to me but it seems like to me that when he got booted out of school he did a flip but now he has reverted back to his same old thing. *shurg* i have some thinking i need to do i guess

coolsashy July 7 2006, 22:11:48 UTC

=/

I wish when he did the flip, he would stick with it and really get a hold of things. Right now, he is letting things go their own way, rather than try and make things happen.

ivorysilence July 8 2006, 05:44:57 UTC

I don't know what to tell you, hun. Nobody knows better than you do.

I wish you the best of luck. It's a tough one.