help!

[tim2086]

I knew this would happen with any relationship I ever got into. Talking...the reason I won't have very good luck in relationships. I have trouble starting or holding a conversation with people unless I'm arguing or complaining and I'm sure Jessica doesn't want to hear either of those. The following is an email Jessica sent me this morning

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Uh

[keithit]

> > . . . start talking?

Re: Uh

[tim2086]

ok Keith I kind of figured that! But that's the problem...not only do I not know what to talk about that will actually hold a conversation but I usually have nothing to talk about because I do the same thing everyday.

Re: Uh

[keithit]

don't you talk to your friends when you're just hanging out? maybe you are nervous and need to relax.. ask her questions about what she likes, maybe she will start talking and then you can get inspiration from something she says.

Re: Uh

[tim2086]

yea I did that and she told me she's interested in alot of things. I asked what specific things and she said I don't know just anything and everything. When I try to ask questions to start a conversation I get the feeling she doesn't want just questions because she never answers them.