LEAD ON!!!

[timptranceu2]

This feeling will forever haunt me. There is only one guy in my life that isnt making me feel lead on (thank goodness), but I have felt that way before and it turns out to be crap. Why is this happening to me? Can any guy explain this one for me? I get told one thing and somethin completely the opposite happens that really makes me feel used

Comments

[bunglevolante]

I think the only simple solution to this problem is to just stay single for a while. I think these guys get the impression that you're on the rebound and that they can get whatever they want out of you, and the only way you can protect yourself is to just not date for a while. Just have friends, until you feel its the right time to start dating again. These guys aren't worth your frustration, don't waste your energy questioning it. Its what most men do when they think they see free to use vulgar slang, "tail". They're scumbags. Let them rot in the ground where they lay, my love.

[ardienteelsol]

Exactly.

[ardienteelsol]

Sometimes you have to be patient to find someone. Usually, when you find the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with is usually the one you never looked for.

[timptranceu2]

that what jared was. he was the one i thought i could never find. I stayed single for 6 months after him and I started dating and such. I get what you're all saying, but I did the single thing and no dating and I was just as miserable as I am now. I mean yeah, I got less stress cuz I wasnt dealing with guys, but it's just depressing when you thought you met someone cool and things go to shit. Right now, im not forcing anything and just letting things fall into my lap. But it seems these days the ones I dont look for, seem to only want "it" and when I say no they think something is wrong and its just ridiclous. Who cares about sex!!! I certainly could care less. I could talk on and on about this. Honestly, I really dont have many people I can talk to about this. When I talk to guys about it, they're like well I wont use you bla bla bla, that guy sounds like a dick and then THEY go do it. I don't know how I can trust a guy and know that he really wants ME for who I AM. .. :(