Anyone have any good ideas to get rid of "Ron"? I thought if I ignored him and deleted his comments he would go away, but its been months and hes more persistent then ever
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Tom, I love you dearly. There is nothing to forgive. Why can't we be OK? I, too, often think of the time we spent together in high school. All of the friends and boyfriends that have passed through my life are familiar with the well-worn tales of our past antics. Now we are older, softer, more settled in our respective foundations- things are different- not only between us but within us, as well. We both know this. But I still need you in my life. I still want you in my life. I won't pretend that I fully understand your reasons for not wanting to talk to me- I don't think I ever did, not completely. I want to respect your wishes, but I don't want to say goodbye to you. I cannot. You are my family.
i wish i had an answer for you. i've accumulated two stalker weirdos over the years and i've tried everything. and just when you think you've sufficiently scared them away, there they are in your inbox. i even deleted my journal briefly. thought about starting up a new account, but the idea of leaving my journal makes me a little sad, even though i hate it most of the time, if that makes any sense. regardless, goodluck with yours. and if you find a way to be rid of him, keep me updated.
just for the record - i'm not, nor have i ever been, a wierdo. although i can admit i am a bit stalkeresque. call it whatever you like - interest, care, infatuation, obsession - it's all the same light seen through different sides of the prism. to address the issue, there is no way to make them go away. even if they never comment again, they will always be reading, watching, or waiting. your best bet - create a new yahoo or gmail account, and tell them to email you so you can carry on a private conversation. this will keep them from commenting on/defiling your public space while allowing them the same level of communication. sorry for the lack of humor here.
was this meant as a response to my entry, or crystal's comment? from your little blurb i am assuming that you mean to respond to crystal's comment and that you don't know me (or even my journal) from adam- which would seem to indicate that your interest, care, infatuation, obsession (call it whatever you like) has driven you to read not only her entries, but the entries of her friends and her comments, when applicable. in that case, no apology needed, your comment was quite humorous.
you are correct. but i wish i did know you. when you say it like that, it sounds extremely get-a-restraining-order-esque, so allow me to at least scrape some of my sanity off the floor and diffuse my embarrassment by saying that crystal conveniently has a number of web comics i read on her friends page, and your posts are also there, and i was intrigued by the parallelism of your post vis-a-vis crystal and her journal and my former tendency to comment and the annoyance that may or may not have caused her. k, i'll shut up now.
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from your little blurb i am assuming that you mean to respond to crystal's comment and that you don't know me (or even my journal) from adam- which would seem to indicate that your interest, care, infatuation, obsession (call it whatever you like) has driven you to read not only her entries, but the entries of her friends and her comments, when applicable. in that case, no apology needed, your comment was quite humorous.
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