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tink_a_roni

such a childish topic

Nov 04, 2003 13:20

alright. yeah, this is really a pre-teen and teen concept but I'm really feeling very imprisioned by my mom's restrictions. What I can and what I can't do.... no... mainly what I can't do ( Read more... )

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it's for a purpose... anonymous November 4 2003, 23:35:16 UTC

it happens to the majority of everyone. father vs son, mother vs daughter, etc. no child will ever be what their parents want them to be. we're not them, we can't be them. what we want is and will always be different from what they want. it's in our nature to 'rebel' against the things that hold us down, because we mostl 'know' what (we think) is best for us. sometimes we're right, and sometime's they are. it's up to each individual to find the median that brings them both together, and that does not mean it will be justified. sometimes we have to look at and to others to find that which we lack for answers, and sometimes only time resolves things, sometimes only time will give us the answers that we can't understand at this point. hopefully you can find someone that really 'loves' you and can help you through it, that's what is the missing piece a lot of times. in the end, you'll make it through, maybe scarred, maybe not. be smart, think about yourself in the future, you'll find a way.

If it makes n e difference..... kornut November 7 2003, 10:26:23 UTC

i like that ur different. i like that ur not like ur mom or ur sister or ur brother. i like that there is NO ONE like u in our family, because to be quite honest, sometimes im not particularly fond of our family and the hallways they call their minds. of course this is coming from a girl with scrambled eggs for brains because im so mixed up and holes in her face for self expression instead of a new wardrobe. i understand that many people dont accept this, but im really too tired trying to please everyone else, because i know that will NEVER happen. no matter what WE do, it wont ever be good enough for EVERYONE. if it finally satisfies the demands of one, its too little for the other. i know that its hard to feel good about yourself when u feel you are so obviously the black sheep of the family, but the fact of the matter is it's the opposite way around. u arent the outcast, and u shouldnt be the one that is trying to fit in with them, THEY should want to be more like u, because when measured, lined up, compared and contrasted, it is ( ... )