What is there to be afraid of, each person is alone .. there is no one who can really symphathize or emphatize with another person, not for more than a brief moment anyway.
So as we are all alone all the time, there can be no reason to be anything other that content with this state.
sure no one can sympthize all the time, but you can't be alone forever... you might as well just die... "no man is an island" and there is no way life would be worth while if we were alone all the time... i will settle for temporary sympathy if thats alll i can get... but i refuse to be alone forever...
What about just doing what you like to do? Pursuing your own interests, I get the impression you do some drawing or art or something? What other interests do you have? I guess you're still young, but you don't want to get into some relationship as a dependent on them for spiritual fulfillment (not in a theological way).
i do what i like to do. yes, drawing and painting are part of it. i also love to read books, make clothes, and cross stich... but my time for all that is limited.. i have to find a job and pack to move and get ready to go back to college... its just harder then it should be... i do steer clear of relationships... but mainly because guys can't handle single moms and if they do they only want sex... just too many things have happened to me when it comes to guys... i'm tired of being used, but i don't want to be alone... it is my ultimate catch 22....
Argh, lost my post.xtycFebruary 4 2004, 15:31:48 UTC
Stupid computers. Anyways, I was just saying that I have a friend who met her boyfriend through lavalife. They each have daughters and they're both about 23. They've been together for 6 months and seem pretty happy.
PS: You should talk to my buddy about using women, he just doesn't understand and it pisses me off sometimes. He just needs to hear it from the womens' perspective I think though.
Re: Argh, lost my post.tiny20February 4 2004, 19:05:42 UTC
i think one day i'll find the right person... its just not now... my son is only 2 and i think i need to be with him now not worring about a guy... you know? sure i'll talk to your friend... i definatly know first hand about being used.... it sucks ass....
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So as we are all alone all the time, there can be no reason to be anything other that content with this state.
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i do steer clear of relationships... but mainly because guys can't handle single moms and if they do they only want sex... just too many things have happened to me when it comes to guys... i'm tired of being used, but i don't want to be alone... it is my ultimate catch 22....
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PS: You should talk to my buddy about using women, he just doesn't understand and it pisses me off sometimes. He just needs to hear it from the womens' perspective I think though.
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sure i'll talk to your friend... i definatly know first hand about being used.... it sucks ass....
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