huzban appreciation poast!

[tinycreepshow]

"Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.

"Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the

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[marinshellstone]

God, this is a beautiful post. Made me tear up!!!

I think you nailed it right on the head. The incredibly entangled roots...that go DEEP. They go into the deepest and most sacred parts of ourselves. Yes there is a rush in new love, new lust. I used to be addicted to it, and then I started to grow up a bit. I left someone I was in a very serious relationship with to be with Adam, after feeling that breathless spark with him, accompanied by an almost primal urge, a strange "knowing". Yet for a while, I was still insecure, very fearful that I had left something so solid and good for something that might turn out to fizzle. Yet it turned out to be the most serious, deep and passionate relationship of my life, and he turned out to be my husband. :)

We have our issues like any couple. But I wake up every morning knowing we are both committed to each other 100% and we can work through anything. That is a kick-ass feeling.

[tinycreepshow]

I definitely understand being addicted to that new love feeling. Before Ian, I had a a distinct 2 year limit on relationships. I was addicted to that feeling, and lacked the maturity to understand that there was anything beyond that. I've grown up a lot in the last few years, enough to know now that love grows and changes, and that's okay, that's beautiful.