I wish he wouldn't go...

[tipsytheturtle]

I guess I am about to sound really selfish about what I am about to say, but then again no one really cares anyways. Tomorrow is my cousin's 21st birthday party and it's a guys night out. From what they were talking about, they were going to go to Pleasure Island at downtown disney, well I heard from my mom that they are going to a various number

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[w00t2demax]

Aww Dana, sorry, but I don't think you're over reacting. I'd be pissed off and depressed, too. But I know where you're coming from...you're damned if you say something, and you're damned if you don't. Just hang in there, things will get better.

[tirsaac]

talk to him, dana.... i mean, let him know that you dont like he's going... and after that, if he still want to go... just let him... at least, he knows what you want..

[megan0905]

I've been struggling with this too, because I know that Ryan's friend is going to have his bachelor's party at a strip club (ya know, when it happens). I have major insecurities. I even hate it when he watches porn because it makes me feel like I'm not good enough.

We've had the same conversation over and over, and I'm finally starting to get it. He doesn't want to see other women because of me. It's just something to do.

Chris probably just wants to go with the guys, just because he wants to go with the guys. It wouldn't be fair to him if you didn't let him go. You just need to trust him and not bug him about it.

Do you know that he loves you? If yes, then there isn't a problem. I can't speak for Chris, but I know that if Ryan went to a strip club, he wouldn't do anything bad.

I would just let Chris know that it makes you a little uncomfortable, but that you want him to have a good time with the guys. Tell him that you trust him to make the right decisions and be a good boy.

[blackashes]

strip clubs are NOT a big deal. But I guess...some people believe they are. Its just fun times and stupidity...but I guess your insecurities about him are very real and you think at any moment he might leave you for some whore on a stage.

strip clubs for "normal" men are JUST STUPIDLY ENTERTAINING nothing more...they always prefer their wives/gfs its just something stupid men AND women do.

but then again..who am I to judge your insecurities.