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[tobethesky]

http://www.shambhalasun.com/index.php?option=content&task=view&id=1610

This is something I've always tried to work on, but more consciously since focusing on Buddhism. The letting go. Realizing that though we often place an unusual amount of emphasis on "venting" as important, it often takes on a life of its own. As if it helps a situation to be

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[0wls_do_cry]

great article!

I get stuck in shenpa an awful lot... what things are supposed to be, how things "aren't"... and also have your same fear. ;) "what would I write about in my journals?". Looking back on them, I do an awful lot of complaining.

[tobethesky]

Haha I think we condition ourselves to believe we're more interesting when we have problems. I just realize in a lot of social situations: work, school esque situations, people bond heavily over complaining. But I also realize that as my energy continues to evolve, so will the people I attract. I'm still working some restaurant shifts, and I really love the people there, but I can feel myself able to relate less and less.