Comments | tobiathan20: The thinking of women

tobiathan20

The thinking of women

Jan 09, 2005 20:19

You know.. ive spent like the last hour trying to figure out why it always seems that women think they are fat... or arent good enough... or arent perfect... ok i just dont understand... Yeah sure the media is the biggest cause for this.. but the whole "Perfect Image" of a woman doesnt really exist, because they touch up every image... and i ( Read more... )

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this is my thought anonymous January 10 2005, 02:44:10 UTC

I do believe that there is sometimes a bigger reason behind, why women think that they just arnt good enough. But, i also think that it is the man's fault because we lead the women to believe that, the perfect girl is the one with the long legs and perfect curved figure. Well i think that i have experienced that looks arnt everything..... Girls need to figure out that there personality is what matters and that God as a purpose for every person and that if a guy cant see that beauty is only skin deep then they are the ones that need a reality check!!

Re: this is my thought tobiathan20 January 10 2005, 03:17:04 UTC

This is very tru... i agree with you on the fact that beauty is only skin deep... and i have come to realize that the personality is what makes a girl who she is and that she should see for herself that she is beautiful... even if some people dont think so

Re: this is my thought armysister752 April 17 2005, 03:02:21 UTC

idk u but i read this thing somewhere.The real truth is guys are the ones that make girls feel different. I mean be truthful most guys dont look at a girl's personality when they date a girl. They look at the looks. the reason we arent happy with ourselves is b/c guys make us feel we aint good enough. its hard to think ur beatiful unless others think you are.

anonymous January 10 2005, 02:57:44 UTC

i think that the woman should be happy with herself and if the guy dont like it he dont have to have her ... everyone out there is meant for someone ... so if a person is meant for someone then looks shouldnt matter ... girls just like to have the confidence that they can get a guy when guys set such high standards for the women when most the guys themselves are even farther from perfect ... all in all ... its a bunch of bs that has gotten this world in such materialistic times

comment? anonymous January 10 2005, 03:41:26 UTC

i agree although i just did a post on my xanga about the exact same thing and i could go on and on and on about why girls think that way..but i wont lol

loverlymle January 21 2005, 02:58:27 UTC

I am female.
I'm not thin.
sure, I might be a little bit bigger
but I think I'm beautiful and perfectly fine the way I am.

I think the only thing that prevents some guys from liking a less-than-"perfect" girl
is her own inability to like herself

whiteknee February 2 2005, 03:26:08 UTC

i definately have that inability ... but then again you know that and thats why you are my mentor ... ay?