Comments | tobiwan: Self betrayal at it's finest

tobiwan

Self betrayal at it's finest

Feb 20, 2006 13:15

I understand from the beginning here that I tend to overdramatize things in my life. This instance is nothing short of that ( Read more... )

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the_augur February 21 2006, 01:16:58 UTC

Isn't it painful when that secluded little cage you made for yourself is rattled? But it has to happen... we're both lucky to have friends good enough to open it up and give us a hand in getting out. Good luck man, I have an inkling of what you're going through.

tobiwan February 21 2006, 12:34:51 UTC

Unfortunately, I have this feeling that it's going to get worse before it gets any better.

norelen February 21 2006, 17:59:34 UTC

Probably. But the long run changes will make it all worthwhile.

tobiwan February 21 2006, 20:25:55 UTC

Well, atleast I'm prepared for it already.

I can look forward that to keep my spirits up. That, and my near future move to a location closer to work. New places always give me a positive attitude.

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mrsno6 February 22 2006, 04:31:29 UTC

That which does not kill us...

Duh anonymous March 2 2006, 20:26:28 UTC

You should have probably asked your dear friend "Sam" about this considering she's gone through TWO divorces and paid for both. Yessir, the 2nd ex makes >$100k per year and I make considerably less and I paid for the divorce. Yippee. However, it's not expensive if you don't fight over the details and need attorneys. In fact, it's awfully fucking cheap if you consider what it is that you're doing. Plus, you have two choices: do it all yourself (cheap but not a great option for stoners) or have my chick do it for you. Cost: approx. 600-700. I'm not sure how it works since you're up there and she's down here, but I'd be willing to help out with asking her ? and shit. And again... if you file all the papers yourself it's cheeeep. It's just paperwork, man. Lay off the pity card and the pipe. Get yourself a divorce. You might get more nookie. And everyone knows that nookie is better than Mary. And Nookie + Mary = yum.

Another brutally honest comment, ('Cause you know I love you)

Sam

Re: Duh tobiwan March 2 2006, 20:53:03 UTC

I wouldn't expect any less from you Sam...you've never sugar coated anything for me. I'm feeling the lubb, believe me..*smirk*

I know it's not a gaurantee that I'll get more nookie while being divorced, but I sure wish I had thought(or had it pointed out) of this a few years ago.

I'm atleast through with making excuses about it~that takes an unbelieveable amount of energy.