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[tolandria]

Bryan has asked me to move in with him. There are lots of pros and many but what ifs but essentially I think there is a pretty good basis for a yes. I think I am about 85% sure I am ready to do this. Still, I going to take a couple of days to think about it just in case.

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[canadian_adhd]

Wow...congrats!

[tinytiff]

Wow! Congrats! Moving-in together is a big step. It's good you are taking your time to think about it. Do what you belive is best for both of you. Try not to think too much about it though, make sure you are balancing your head and heart.

[tolandria]

Thank you. I will definitely try to find the balance of the two. Logically, it makes sense but I'm not sure where my emotions are at yet mostly I think because it is somewhat a matter of convienence as his roommate has decided to move out and it is time sensitive.

[tinytiff]

Ah, so it wasn't as spontanious as it could have been. I see. It's always possible he had been considering it before, and only thought of the convenience part (having someone to take over the old roomate's rent) afterwards.

[tolandria]

Well, we've always spoken of it as an eventuality but saw no reason to rush into it as moving is hassle. I think I'm mostly off put by it because I assumed I'd have a little more time to get used to the idea.

[rowen_berry]

awwwww :)

How long have you guys been dating?

[tolandria]

:) Just a little over a year.