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mstakenidentity February 15 2011, 12:54:28 UTC
Aw, that is a lovely story!

(Also I have been kinda sorta trying to work out from your LJ whether you and Jai were still together, and that kind of cleared it up for me, absolutely none of my business of course- I was just getting confused and don't like being confused but knew it was not my place to ask)

Hurrah for cute drunk boys and solo cinema sessions! Out of interest, what film did you see?

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toley_elf February 15 2011, 20:56:47 UTC
yeah fair enough. i haven't really wanted to spell it out because of unnecessary sympathy, but i don't mind those that pay attention knowing. and i definately know what its like to be curiou whenits impolite to ask.

but yeah, dating each other got bad for our mental health, and besides the part where he still has problems with the fact that i am dating someone not him, things are really much better this way.

and new boy helps me feel extremly good about myself, whch is nice.

i saw the kids are alright, which is about two lesbian women who hhhave two teenagekids with the same sperm donor. the kids seek out the donor. hijinks ensue.

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toley_elf February 16 2011, 03:37:32 UTC
I know for me it just comes from constantly needing to distract my brain. I think in general though it's the whole concept of humans being social creatures, and so social standing is important. If you are doing something alone that means you have no social ranking and are worthless. I don't think that people consciously think that of course, but you know.

and yeah clubbing is awesome. i miss cab noc too. though that is the kind of place where you know you will run into people. I reckon you could totally join Facebook and have a profile that you just don't friend anyone with, just use it for finding things....

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