Love can never be moderate because if it was, it wouldn't be love. It's the difference between 'I like you' and 'I love you'.
Ironically, even though it's very hard to love someone who doesn't love you in the same way, it's the easiest of all situations. You'll be lonely and maybe a bit jealous, but at least you can be there for the other person as a friend if nothing else.
Then again, if you just stand still and chase after the things you want, nothing will ever happen. You have to take the initiative. It's extremely risky, especially considering how volatile emotions can be, but it will pay off. Even if the results seem negative, you've solidified who you are as an individual and learned from the things that went wrong.
'Why are people so hurt by lonliness?'
. . . yeah. You can tell I study philosophy. Eheheh.
*hug* がんばって,ボクの弟。 I don't know. But whatever the reason, it's universal and it's one of the worst feelings in the world.
Its actually ShampsinacurateApril 18 2005, 01:24:46 UTC
Hun, i know you are upset right now, i say your comment on duo's page, but wanted to post just to you somewhat, you know i'm here for you and if you want to talk go ahead and give me a call on the cell and leave a message (i'll then go grab the other phone and call back) and we can talk, or even grab me only, if i have an away up just msg me and i will see it, i'm almost always on the computer unless i'm not home at all. You know i love ya hun *hugs, glomps* Don't let this get you down too much, its her loss not having you in her life, you should laugh at her, cause shes just lost the best thing she probably could have had.
Re: Its actually ShampsinacurateApril 18 2005, 19:57:50 UTC
don't get mad at her hun, she is just agreeing that it was her loss, leave be what is be, don't let it get to you right now cause doing that can cause more hurt to yourself.
I got the message and when i get a chance i will give a call back later on
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Ironically, even though it's very hard to love someone who doesn't love you in the same way, it's the easiest of all situations. You'll be lonely and maybe a bit jealous, but at least you can be there for the other person as a friend if nothing else.
Then again, if you just stand still and chase after the things you want, nothing will ever happen. You have to take the initiative. It's extremely risky, especially considering how volatile emotions can be, but it will pay off. Even if the results seem negative, you've solidified who you are as an individual and learned from the things that went wrong.
'Why are people so hurt by lonliness?'
. . . yeah. You can tell I study philosophy. Eheheh.
*hug* がんばって,ボクの弟。
I don't know. But whatever the reason, it's universal and it's one of the worst feelings in the world.
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*special shampoo glomp hug* just because you need a special shampoo one ^_^
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<3..
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One the other side of the coin, DUO, you stop replying to my posts I don't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!!!!!!!!!
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I got the message and when i get a chance i will give a call back later on
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