Comments | toomanyangels: sweep all the pieces under the bed

toomanyangels

sweep all the pieces under the bed

Feb 04, 2004 00:54

Errr... I'm so sick of bullshit type stuff. If I wanted to get in relationship fights I would try a hell of a lot harder to be in a relationship, and contrary to popular belief the part of relationships that I would like to experience isn't the arguing part. God I love Kim to death. She is one of my favorite people here at school. If I'm in a ( Read more... )

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imthirstyanyway February 3 2004, 22:30:36 UTC

sean wishes your pistons

Re: toomanyangels February 4 2004, 06:41:59 UTC

you're psycho

Friends anonymous February 4 2004, 11:44:08 UTC

It's great that your friends trust you enough to come to you for help but it sounds like you're making their problems your own. To make it easier on you, try not to pick either and just listen or give advise to one at a time and never tell one what the other said (ex. Kim says something about Josh, don't tell him, even if it's positive and vice versa) That way you can maintian a friendship with both without having to trash whoever's not around and feel guilty and stressed about it. It's also important to know your own limits, If you're not emotionally ready to handle other peoples problems and you're having a bad day let them know that you're too stressed to deal with it at the moment but you do value their friendship. Good Luck with your friends!-someone who's been there as well :)

Re: Friends toomanyangels February 4 2004, 13:18:38 UTC

can I ask... who are you?

Re: Friends anonymous February 4 2004, 17:42:54 UTC

Does it matter a lot who I am? I will stop writing if you would like. Only one person I know, knows that I am writting to you and they were the person to introduce me to your journal. I discuss your journal with no one and won't always have the time to write back. If you really want to know, I guess I could tell you but then I'm afraid you wouldn't want to listen. On the topic of your newest entry, it's always good to examine yourself but it can be a very difficult process. Sometimes it can really hurt and change the entire direction of where you go next. It's importent to discuss some of these changes and realizations with friends as well and give yourself a firm foundation of people you trust. I know from experiance trust is a very hard thing in college, but if you can find one or two people and just sit around and discuss your weekly highs and lows it can do a lot for your stress level. Good Luck with yourself! -Someone who cares