Is this a guy you talk to regularly? What made him think you needed to know that? I think we all have that guy, but we have to remember why we broke up with them in the first place. And we have to remember that guys rarely make sense. My ex is seeing a girl that he threatens to break up with daily but never does. He knows she's not right for him but he's afraid to leave her. She wants him to marry her. I keep waiting for the day when he says he's doing it.
Why does he threaten to break up with her? Why do you say he knows she's not right for him but he's afraid to leave her? Is this the Aric you've talked about in the past, the one you're still really good friends with? When was the last time he talked to you about that? Is it really daily, or just every once in a while?
Kenyon and I talk about once or twice a week, but I almost never see him because he moved to California. He never comes out and says anything overt but the little stuff he does say makes me think she's just not right for him.
Hmm, I don't remember using any of my ex's names in posts. I talk to four of them on a regular basis and in almost every case you could hit play and here the same thing. I think that people mostly take the opportunity to vent about things to their friends and the negatives come up more frequently than the positives just because that's what they need to vent about. There's no real need to vent about the positives, you don't want to lose those. So I think just in general people tend to talk more about the negatives about anything. Perhaps this is the same situation with Kenyon. You don't hear the good things because he's just getting the negative things off his chest. Obviously there must be good things, or they wouldn't still be with them, right?
You really haven't mentioned Aric much in your posts but in the comment you left in my post on May 8th you mention him as one of your exes.
I know Kenyon too well, or at least I thought I did. We ended pretty much like you and Aric, with no heat, just a parting of ways, well over 10 years ago.
I am feeling a bit better about things. What's funny is that until he told me that he had asked Christy to marry him, I would never have imagined that kind of reaction from myself...
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I'm doing a little better today.
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Kenyon and I talk about once or twice a week, but I almost never see him because he moved to California. He never comes out and says anything overt but the little stuff he does say makes me think she's just not right for him.
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I know Kenyon too well, or at least I thought I did. We ended pretty much like you and Aric, with no heat, just a parting of ways, well over 10 years ago.
I am feeling a bit better about things. What's funny is that until he told me that he had asked Christy to marry him, I would never have imagined that kind of reaction from myself...
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