i don't know why people say everyone here is attractive because it's definitely ain't the truth. it's almost as great as the people who crawl out of nowhere when there's a compliment post.
I AGREE SO HARD! Random people you've never seen comment here will post their picture and expect 9338 nice comments. And they won't even comment other pictures.
well tbh that's the point - you don't have to be a ~popular~ member to get a compliment because it's about making people feel good about themselves. it would be nice if everyone returned the favor, but it's not required. at least it wasn't when I ~INVENTED~ the compliment posts.
i said "i'm bisexual" for the first time instead of just "i think i might be bisexual" last night and i honestly feel like all of this weight has lifted off my shoulders. it's still strange to me re-evaluating everything i've always assumed about myself for like... two decades but after half a year of my head being all muddled, it's nice to feel like i've reached a point where i've at least accepted who i am.
It's such a stupid thing to get upset about, but at the same time it's just common courtesy... like, it wouldn't kill them to just say "Well, that was my day. What about yours?" and then maybe take two minutes to listen! Gah. Mine isn't a great communicator though - he's not especially good at telling me how *his* day was... Normally I just get "it was okay" or "I've had worse"...!
I actually (very gently) called my bf out on it a little while ago, and he's getting a little better. He now asks me how I am occasionally. But never how my day was. Well, I suppose it's something! I just tell him how it was anyway, haha. He'll say "oh my day was fine", and then I'll just say something like, "that's good... now let me tell you about *my* day!"
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yes I pulled the "I totes did it first" card idc
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I actually (very gently) called my bf out on it a little while ago, and he's getting a little better. He now asks me how I am occasionally. But never how my day was. Well, I suppose it's something! I just tell him how it was anyway, haha. He'll say "oh my day was fine", and then I'll just say something like, "that's good... now let me tell you about *my* day!"
It's not the same but it's something!
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