i know you don't know me at all, so advice from a phantom probably isn't what you're looking for. and yet, i've been somewhere near where you are (with slight modifications, of course). my (now ex) boyfriend of six years; some similar circumstances. the only thing i can say that helped -- because that last year of the six was full of breakapart backtogether repeatness -- was cold turkey, a clean break. we had a final conversation full of shit not said (although there is still some shit i forgot to add), and then we never spoke again (although he tried). which, two years later, has actually worked. it's really rough and horrible in the beginning, but i find it's the only way to even begin to repair and move on, if that's what you're after.
of course, that might totally be so *not* what you're after, in which case, just wanted to say: you have no idea who i am, but nonetheless, i'm sorry for what you're going through, and i have an unlimited supply of xanax if you need any. although i'm stuck in los angeles.
nothing to really do, although if he was the one who supported monogamy, then had a tryst, which resulted in a period of strife between you two that you were able to work through because of your generosity, AND THEN he goes and does it again...you pretty much hafta end things
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of course, that might totally be so *not* what you're after, in which case, just wanted to say: you have no idea who i am, but nonetheless, i'm sorry for what you're going through, and i have an unlimited supply of xanax if you need any. although i'm stuck in los angeles.
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B) Add my friend wedrinkbitter to your friends list so you have another Angry Jew Being Shit-On By Significant Other with whom to commiserate.
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you should call the joe
206.200.7078
trust me.
sometimes friends in other places
are the ones you need to talk with.
just call.
joe
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