I can't say this to your face so I'll vent where you'll never read it

[toxiclykeastar]

I understand that you only have control over your own life. You only learn your own lessons and only over come your own obsticles. But what do you do when a friend has asked for so much advice and has never taken it? How do you tell a friend that the addiction they are fighting isn't the only one thats a problem

Comments

[raygunnoey]

I would have a heart to heart with her, when you think she will be most receptive and open to your suggestions. I think you should tell you exactly how you feel, and that you wanting her to improve the quality of her life is out of love for her. Let her know that you want the best for her and that you feel she hasn't been treating herself the way she deserves.
Just a thought! this prob. wasn't helpful.
btw, I found this blog that gives people (anonymous) advice. There's a girl who answers relationship advice. You could always ask her! I've thought about it sometimes...

[toxiclykeastar]

thats not a bad idea ill probably give that a shot :) thanks

[raygunnoey]

So I didn't send you the link? what! if you want a second opinion before you talk to her :D
http://fuckyeslifeadvice.tumblr.com/